A little introduction of the old me

There's one character I read in a book. The character reflect a bit of my old personality. If before, i would say,
" Ah, it's so sad to have people keep on saying you are arrogant, kerek and some other stuff (which not to ears liken) and normally it happened if I'm within guys."And again I said."I need to change so I would be like by both and comfortable to get close to." 

A few years, month passed. i managed to change myself a little bit. Although not 100% but there's a change. But after that. I made up my mind again and said to myself,
" why should I mind them. That could also be my charm.A hidden charm which only valued to those who knows to appreciate. 'Arrogant girl' because they are not cheap. They have high value which they permit it only for their husband and those near-relatives. Being arrogant doesn't mean they are bad. It just that they have been use to self-control especially when it's near guys. So, why should I care about it too much? I keep my eyes from watching or seeing them because i'm scared syaitan would whisper to me and make me fall in love easily. I keep my mouth because i'm afraid it would hurt others and lower my voice because that's how I am teach in Islam. Every mean of attitude is because I'm afraid of Allah and it became a habit which eventually i did it without realizing it. But still, i said I want to change into a girl which easily surrounded by guys? Pffft.. Wtheck! Think again. Just be your arrogant self or whatever as long you know you did it because of Allah. They are not the one to give you value. If you are afraid not to found your soul-mate, your spousse, your lover or any related to 'LOVE' then erase that thought. There are so many way which you can found them by halal mean. By parents, friends, spying (ehem ehem) or by talking to their relatives. Just think of any good way than the need of dating and so on. Come on la. We are in modern days. Just use internet meh. Be a clever stalker."

However, things had changed a bit. I change myself to be able to communicate with both and sometimes jesting with them. Luckily, i don't change 100% and still have my arrogant feel. Thanks ummi and abah because your teaching method had made your daughter to be this kind of girl. Who knows her limit, who knows halal and haram in Islam. Who have fear in whatever wrong-doing she might done and repent on it. A girl that keep on trying to balance it between worldly and hereafter. Have fun but with limitation. Thanks Allah for giving me a good parent 

Hua3..Already post it here..Cp from my Facebook account since one of my blogger friend asked me to post it here.. "Dah bersarang sangat" dah katanya. Hahaha..K fine~ 

Sekadar menasihati duhai Artis

Actually I'm quite sad of the fact that seorang artis which has almost the same name as mine make a terrible things. Well, for me.. Artis means memberi contoh kepada masyarakat since mereka yang akan terpampang di televisyen Malaysia. Ramai orang akan mengenali mereka. Malahan, mungkin memberi contoh ikutan yang tidak baik kepada yang melihat.

Mungkin mudah untuk si dia mengatakan, "dah yang mereka sendiri pergi bangang tengok video bangang tu kenapa?" tapi tak tau ke oleh si artis ni bahawa mungkin ade orang yang admire lakonan dia dalam 'Biar mimpi sampai ke bintang' lalu mencari video berkenaanya di youtube dan terlihat perkara tersebut. Agak menyedihkan dengan realiti artis tempatan.

Bukan nak mengutuk tapi ingin saling menasihati. Perangai gila ada hadnya apabila ia berkaitan agama. Tak kata kita ini dijamin masuk ke syurga tapi ingin memperingati agar kita dapat berjalan bersama ke syurga. Nama Sharifah Sakinah itu sendiri indah bahkan Sakinah memberi maksud ketenangan. Setiap orang ada kegilaan mereka sendiri. Saya hormat itu namun ingin saya tegaskan "ALLAH MAHA PENGAMPUN" dan semoga si dia ini mendapat hidayah. -Doa dari seseorang yang mempunyai nama yang sama-

p/s: Peringatan juga buat duhai si penasihat/pendakwah. kata-kata yang hendak disampaikan perlulah berhemah bukan sehingga mencalar hati dan keegoan manusia kerana syaitan dan nafsu pandai bermain dengan kelemahan dan kemarahan kita sebagai manusia. Kata itu ibarat pedang yang tajam, contohilah sikap rasulullah dalam menasihati. Walau sekeras mana hati manusia, seandainya dibukakan Allah pintu hidayah maka cairlah jua hati itu :)

Saje jer Nak Post

Hari ni tiba-tiba rasa macam nak post dalam bahasa melayu pula. Hanya sebagai sekadar coretan diari. Tapi itu tak bermakna kita kena tulis satu persatu ape yang kita buat hari ni kan. Sebab memang tak de ape pun buat. Cuma kemas-kemas rumah sikit lepas jamuan semalam.

Nak post gambar, leceh lah nk transfer masuk laptop. Semua dah post kat instagram jer.. hehe (followlah kalau nak @dvsweetsecrets) Ni rasa macam nak tukar background blog pulak. Da comei-comei widget tapi background nampak gloomy pulak. Haiyaiyai..

Kalau tengok macam ni je mungkin lah nampak macam ok. Cuba tengok part nak baca-baca pulak.. Fulamak, boring la pulakkan~

Tapi nak pilih warna apa yer bagi nampak ceria sikit.. itu pun satu hal juga. Nak kena fikir idea utk decorate money packet with theme festive season but sambil tu nak update juga blog ni bagi kemas & sedap mata memandang. Hahaha..Ok, mula nak melalut. Hantam pi je la warna apa pun~

Only Allah's Can Judge

Assalamualaikum w.b.h

It's been quite awhile since I post something here..
Yeah, frankly I had been kinda lazy to write nowadays..
Its all android game fault (Ok, That's excuses) :P

Well, I got so many ideas to write before but since I got addict to
games, I started to forget how to write better..LOL
Anyway, that's not the reason i'm writing here (talk talk talk..)
I just had a blog-walking on Maria Elena's blog (which I hadn't done it long time)

I saw a video there which truly attracted my attention. Its about how we judge
people. We discriminate them based on appearance, based on hijab itself.
Here, try to look at it for awhile. It worth it ;)

Have you watch it? The message kinda cool right.
It is true I had never experience life without a hijab
 (lie! you don't wear it when you are 6 yr old)
However, I knows how it feels to be judged. I experimented it in using different
kind of hijab. Normally, they would truly respect people with big hijab or people
with wearing niqab while underestimating those who wear small hijab
(which not cover your chest).

I won't judged those who judged me either they are better or not
because that is not my job and I myself is no better than others.
I do judged sometimes but Alhamdulillah I remembered that is not my place.
That is Allah's job and He's the only one can judge us.
It's ok to judged but remembered not to get overwhelm by your own
 judgement because your judgement might not be true. Who knows if people changed
 because of Allah's will power. That's a miracle itself to receive light from Allah (Hidayah).

We can try to give advice to change her for a better Muslim but we shouldn't give her a harsh way of advice. (That's how people nowadays. Nasihat tapi sinis. Sakit hati sungguh!) Rasulullah s.a.w never teach us to give bad treatment to those who differ from us. Instead, he showed humanity,kindness and morality. That is how Islam should be. Islam is a tender religion. It fulls of respect toward others. There are ways to do advice and Allah even open our ways by giving us a gift of prayers and du'a.

Anyhow, people do judge because their brain need to stimulate the
situation and adapt it with their current situation. However, we must keep it in mind
that we can't judge people more than Allah because,
" ALLAH'S KNOWS MORE THAN YOU DO. "

-To Be fame or Not To Be-

There's no need for you to be the other you. Create your own image, your own fame. Who says the media is the only way for you to achieve that? Yes, that might also be oneof the easiest way to achieve fame but that's not what fame really is.

Famous in other word is being popular. A situation where people give attention to you, knows you wherever you are. Your face had been a cover of many magazines, billboard, webs and newspaper. But, have you ever thought for awhile the true meaning of fame?

Fame doesn't mean to be an artist, actors or models. Fame can also be achieve out of that scope. Have you thought that your contribution, your achievement in something could also be one of fame in life. That fame doesn't fade in a blink of time but it remain in the mind of 

people who appreciate it. True fame give you people respect and known in society. 

However, fame doesn't only come with happy ending story. The more fame you have, the more expectation people will put on you. Can you satisfied that expectation when people itself have no regard of satisfaction. They will keep on wanting for more. You need to keep on being  unique for people to give attention to you for quite long time.

Therefore, being yourself is enough. Its enough when you get friends who acknowledge you. Friend and families who knows you inside out. Neighbors that  remember your look, your  name. There's no need to have big fame when it will soon be a burden on you. Secret fame is more satisfying rather than known fame. 

Create your own image with whoever you are. Chill without restraint of being called ugly or annoying as long you know you yourself are happy. Let the negativity froze in the time  of your cheerful smile cause Only Allah can Judge Whoever You Are. Feel Your own fame where only you knows how it feels without the need of searching for the fame itself because you know, fame in the eyes of Allah is enough for you as He keep watching you daily^^

-Care for nothing except for Allah's interest, InsyaAllah-